Episode 30 – Attachment Theory in Relationships with Dr. Diane Poole Heller (part 2 of 2)

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In part 2 of my interview with author, therapist, and adult attachment expert Dr. Diane Poole Heller we talk about how the different attachment styles can affect our dreams, as well as some tips for working with dreams and waking life situations to heal our attachment wounds. We also visit the topic of ghosting, and Diane provides some very valuable insights about why people do this. We look at healing metaphors, and Diane shares some of her own dreams and how they have helped her in her healing journey. For more information on Diane, her books and trainings, and The 2020 Trauma & Attachment Summit (Sept. 30 – Oct. 7, 2020) visit www.dianepooleheller.com

 

 

Here is a recap of some of the attachment styles, from episode 29:

AVOIDANT
Adult term is ‘Dismissive’
Left-brain oriented
Likes alone time
Future oriented
Uses few words to describe things or answer questions

AMBIVALENT
Adult term is ‘Preoccupied’
Right-brain oriented
Likes connection and reassurance
Past oriented (may have a hard time letting go of painful history; may also be sentimental)
Uses many words and details to describe things and answer questions

DISORGANIZED:
Adult term is ‘Unresolved Trauma’
Can be Disorganized Avoidant or Disorganized Ambivalent (right or left brain, past or future oriented accordingly)
Language pattern is hard to follow, may stop abruptly, lack of clarity regarding who or what they are referring to

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Dr. Diane Poole Heller is one of the leading experts in the field of adult attachment theory, which looks at how we connect with others in our relationships. In this episode, she identifies the four main attachment styles and how they originally develop as adaptations to our relationships with primary care givers, and offers suggestions for how we can heal attachment wounds as adults. We also look at how each attachment style is affected by the pandemic. This episode is part one of two. For more information on Diane, her books and trainings, and The 2020 Trauma & Attachment Summit (Sept. 30 – Oct. 7, 2020) visit dianepooleheller.com/

 

Episode 27 – Update and Dreams

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In this episode Mimi shares some of her own recent dreams, along with how she decodes them and uses their messages to help guide her in her life. Featured dreams include: ‘Forgot to Feed the Puppy’, ‘Marianne Williamson and Maria Schriver House Party’, ‘Fighting Demons’, ‘3 Best Friends’, and ‘Baby Polar Bear and Skunk’.

 

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This is the second episode in a three-part series where Mimi Pettibone and Kathleen O’Keefe Kanavos explore dreams happening during the coronavirus pandemic. Dreams discussed include health dreams, a spirit guide with a message, the ground crumbling, a lego-man, and follow ups on dreams from episode 23, including Kat’s coronavirus dream and the shark-turned-llama dream.

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Episode 17 – Debra Silverman on Astrology, Psychology, and the Wisdom of the Elements SUBSCRIBE: Spotify | Apple | Pandora | Google | Stitcher | Tune In | Castbox | RSS Debra Silverman combines her background as a psychotherapist with the wisdom of astrology and the elements. In this episode, Debra talks with Mimi about her background as a dance therapist, the functions of the left and right brain, the personality and the soul, and how we can use an understanding of elemental energies to create balance in our lives. Debra and Mimi also touch on some of the astrological elements of the tarot. debrasilvermanastrology.com thestarcommunity.com Free Gift from Debra: a free elemental compatibility guidebook: http://freepodcastgift.com/

Episode 16 – Dougall Fraser on the Energy of Color

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In this episode, color intuitive Dougall Fraser and Mimi talk about the energy of color in everything from makeup, fashion, and interior design, to synesthesia, to how we can use color to balance our own energies and better fulfill our potential. Dougall specializes in seeing color energy around people, and teaching them how to use this to transform their lives. He is the author of But You Knew That Already: What a Psychic Can Teach You About Life, and Your Life in Color: Empowering Your Soul with the Energy of Color.

His international clientele ranges from CEOs and celebrities, to regular people who may just need extra insight. As the self-titled “Queer Guy with a Third Eye”, Dougall maintains a refreshing and humorous approach to his practice, where he uses clairvoyance, intuition, empathy, color therapy, interior design, and practical advice to help people achieve their goals and dreams.

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Episode 15 – Radleigh Valentine on Angels, Asking for Guidance, and How to Live a Magical Life

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Radleigh Valentine is an Angel Communicator, Tarot Master, and spiritual
teacher who had his first encounter with angelic presences at the age of five.
This former CPA turned tarot card reader has been on quite the journey of his
own. After years of suppressing and denying his true self, Radleigh had the
revelation: “The sparklier I am, the more me that I am, the happier and
more magical my life becomes.” Now he helps people get in touch with their
own inner Genie and claim the magical life they were born to live.

Radleigh is the author of How To Be Your Own Genie, Compendium
of Magical Things, and The Big Book of Angel Tarot. He is also
the creator of 6 tarot and oracle card decks including the bestselling
Angel Tarot Cards. In this episode, Radleigh does a reading for us from
one of his own card decks!

Check out The Dream Detective on Instagram and Facebook to enter to win one
of Radleigh’s books or the Archangel Power Tarot deck, and to see
photos of the cards  from Radliegh’s reading.

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Here are the cards from Radleigh’s reading!:

Episode 14 – Marie Manuchehri on Energy, Intuition, & Overcoming Fear

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Marie Manuchehri, RN, is a nationally known energy intuitive, Reiki master, and teacher. She first discovered her gifts for perceiving subtle energy and facilitating energetic healing while working as a registered oncology nurse. Join Mimi and Marie as they discuss Marie’s work, intuition, energy, and overcoming fear. Marie even shares some of her own dating stories as examples of how to better listen to our intuition.
Enter to win a copy of Marie’s book ‘Intuitive Self-Healing’ by visiting Mimi’s Instagram and Facebook pages!

Marie has a private practice in Seattle, Washington, and hosts the radio program ‘The Marie Manuchehri Show… Where Energy and Medicine Meet.’ For more info on Marie: www.energyintuitive.com

Episode 13 – Health Effects of EMFs with ‘What the EMF?’ Author Risa Suzuki

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Risa Suzuki is the author of ‘What the EMF: How to Protect Your Home from EMF Exposure, Improve Sleep, Reduce Anxiety, and Live a Happier, Healthier Life!’. She joins Mimi today to share how electromagnetic and radio frequency fields can affect our health, including some of the many symptoms and health conditions they can create in our bodies. But don’t worry! Risa also shares tips for how we can protect ourselves from these man-made frequencies to live a healthier life, including real-life before and after stories from some of her own clients. Risa is a certified Building Biology Environmental Consultant who is committed to creating healthy spaces by testing and clearing EMFs and toxins from our everyday indoor environments. Prior to developing her own EMF sensitivities and becoming a Building Biologist, Risa enjoyed a successful career at Microsoft spanning more than twenty-five years. She knows firsthand the importance of balancing how we use technology and managing our health when it comes to EMF radiation. For more info on Risa visit www.risasuzuki.com To enter the contest to win Risa’s book, visit Mimi’s Instagram or Facebook page.

To enter the contest to win Risa’s book, visit Mimi’s Instagram or Facebook page.

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Physicist Bill Lee, inventor of the Trifield meter, talks with Mimi about the different types of EMFs, how to measure them, and what we can do to protect ourselves from over-exposure to them. Bill is a gifted educator and makes this complicated topic easy to understand. The conversation also takes some interesting turns including touching on things like brain mapping and ghost hunting!
Bill has generously donated 2 Trifield TF2 meters, and 2 dirty electricity meters for Mimi to give away. Listen to the end of the episode, and check Mimi’s Instagram and Facebook, for instructions on how you can enter for a chance to win your very own Trifield TF2 meter, or AlphaLab Dirty Electricity meter. For more info on Bill, or to purchase your own meter, visit www.trifield.com
Check back soon for a coupon code to purchase a meter, and for Mimi’s Audible affiliate link!

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1. Answer this question: What did Bill say after I thanked him for joining me at the end of the interview: “Gosh, Mimi, I’m _____” Fill in the blank and send me that word in an email to podcast@thedreamdetective.com
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You can enter each way one time, for up to five contest entries. Duplicate entries, like sending me 7 emails with the contest answer, don’t count as extra entries. I will give away the prizes in the coming weeks, so check social media for that info.

Also, if you’d like to purchase a meter you can get a discount! At the time of this recording the Trifield company is putting together a coupon code for listeners of this show, so check the show notes for this episode and I will post it as soon as I have it. I am also waiting for my Audible affiliate link, so check back for that as well. Happy Listening!