Many of our night time dreams have to do with love and romance. But when we translate their meaning to waking life understanding, they may have everything (or nothing!) to do with our relationships to other people. This workshop will explore the most common dream themes we have regarding love, lust, relationships, sexuality, romance, and our connectedness to ourselves and others. You will learn the universal meanings of these dream themes, as well as how to understand what the dreams mean for you, specifically. We will also look at how our dreams can help us with our relationships, whether or not the dreams appear to be about them. Presented by MIMI PETTIBONE
Dreams of Love and Romance
Dreams & the Paranormal – Oct. 15th at East West Bookshop
DREAMS & the PARANORMAL
Date: Wednessday, Oct. 15th
Time: 7-8:30pm Cost: $12
Location: East West Bookshop, 6500 Roosevelt Way NE, Seattle, WA 98115
Register Here: http://www.eastwestbookshop.com/events/6986
Many extraordinary and paranormal phenomena take place during the sleep and dream states. Night time and the twilight state are also especially conducive to these experiences. While some dreams may be more about psychological processing, others undoubtedly include experiences beyond this, into the realm of the spiritual and metaphysical.
This workshop will explore some of these phenomena, including: visitations from departed loved ones, telepathic, precognitive, clairvoyant and shared dreams, sleep paralysis, and empathic telepathy dreams. This talk will be presented by Seattle dream expert Mimi Pettibone. She offers workshops, groups and private consultations related to dreams, intuition, and conscious and subconscious communication.
Register Here: http://www.eastwestbookshop.com/events/6986
Entrainment of Free-Running Circadian Rhythms by Melatonin in Blind People
The following article talks about how blind people have a free running circadian rhythm; in other words their wake/sleep cycle is not affected by light as with people who can see.
Below is the title and link to the article:
Entrainment of Free-Running Circadian Rhythms by Melatonin in Blind People
Robert L. Sack, M.D., Richard W. Brandes, B.S., Adam R. Kendall, B.S., and Alfred J. Lewy, M.D., Ph.D.
N Engl J Med 2000; 343:1070-1077October 12, 2000DOI: 10.1056/NEJM200010123431503
http://www.nejm.org/doi/full/10.1056/NEJM200010123431503
Things that influence our dreams
This original article was posted here:
http://www.oprah.com/health/Things-That-Influence-Dreams-Dream-Facts/1
Unexpected Things That Influence Your Dreams
You know that sounds, smells and situations can invade them and certain medications spin them out of control. But not in your wildest dreams (maybe) did you think these could play a role.
By Jena Pincott
Your “Favored Position”
Being nude, unable to move, using hand tools, making love to a celebrity (or all of the above at once)? Erotic and perverse dreams are more common among stomach sleepers than among those who favor other positions, found a Hongkongese study (face down in the pillow, privates pressed, you can imagine how). Meanwhile, Turkish researchers found that people who usually sleep on their left side have more nightmares and bizarre dreams, whereas those who slept on their right have mellower ones, with themes of relief, joy, peace and love. No surprise, right-side sleepers also felt better rested and less dysfunctional in their waking hours. (Note: A favored position is one you’re in prior to sleep and when you wake in the morning.)
Kindergarten Music Lessons
There’s a little-known payoff to all those years of elementary school band. The younger people were when they started taking music lessons, the more often the sound of music permeated their dreams. Researchers at the University of Florence’s Sleep Lab who discovered this also found that starting formal training at an early age, when the brain was developing rapidly, had more influence on how often people experienced musical dreams than the total number of years they had lessons, or even how many hours a day they played or listened to music. Bonus finding: 28 percent of these dreams featured music the dreamers had never heard before, suggesting that we really can create original art in our sleep.
Your Love of Cheddar Over Blue Cheese
Despite all the hearsay about dream-inducing edibles, there’s not a lot of science yet, says Tore Nielsen, PhD, a professor at the University of Montreal and director of the Dream & Nightmare Laboratory at the Hôpital du Sacré-Coeur in Montreal. But take heart, experimentalists. In a preliminary, yet-unpublished study, he and a colleague discovered that the most commonly mentioned dream-disturbing foods contained dairy (milk, cheese and yogurt, pizza and poutine—a cheesy Canadian dish). Interestingly, an informal study by the British Cheese Board also found that cheddar (2/3 ounce, a half-hour before bedtime) inspired the pleasantest, most memorable dreams (with celebrity appearances, no less), while Stilton, a stinky blue cheese, made dreams freakier. Nielsen explains that when dairy dreams are distressing, the problem could be an undiagnosed sensitivity to dairy (indigestion, cramping, gas), which is incorporated into the dream as disturbing symbols or emotions.
The Planet’s Gentle Pull
Research finds a connection between magnetism and melatonin: The fewer fluctuations in the earth’s magnetic field (geomagnetic activity), the more dream-inducing sleep hormone the body produces. Inspired, Darren Lipnicki, a psychologist formerly at the Center for Space Medicine in Berlin, recorded his dreams for eight years—he then looked up the records of geomagnetic activity closest to where he lived and found a statistical correlation. After two or more days of an unusually calm magnetic field—and (presumably) higher melatonin—his dreams were much more vivid and bizarre than they were following stormier phases (when melatonin may have been suppressed). As oddball as this preliminary study sounds, it’s not alone.
Your Nocturnal Tendencies
If you’re a night owl and happen to be female, you’re especially prone to having nightmares, Nielsen found. One theory, he explains, is that go-to-bed-late types wake up at an earlier-than-usual circadian phase, in which dreams (or nightmares) are their most intense—and memorable. Another is that evening types have more REM cycles nightly (that is, more opportunities to have nightmares) than others, especially when they sleep in on weekends. But Nielsen contends that the distressing dreams may be primarily a manifestation of mood disorders such as depression and anxiety, which prey on more owls than larks. The best advice, he says, is to experiment with going to sleep earlier. If that’s not realistic, he recommends “imagery rescripting”: a technique for “rewriting a bad dream” by reviewing it during daylight hours—usually with the help of a psychologist—and playing it back with a different twist or ending.
Your Onscreen Alter Ego
The more you play video games, the more control and awareness you’ll have in your dreams—like playing your “character” in your sleep, found Jayne Gackenbach, PhD, a psychologist at Grant MacEwan University in Canada. She explains that serious gamers get a lot of practice maneuvering in a virtual environment—a skill that may translate especially well in the context of a dream.
The One Thing You Want to Avoid
Just try to quash undesired thoughts—about urges, exes, hair loss, deadlines, white bears, whatever—and they’re more likely to rebound in your dreams, jack-in the-box-style, found a study at the Goethe University of Frankfurt. (The prefrontal cortex, which usually keeps these things in check, goes offline as you dream.) The researchers tested this by asking volunteers to suppress an unwanted thought for five minutes prior to sleep. Not only was the thought likelier to intrude in their dreams, but suppressing it also led to more nightmares overall. And when you already have a lot on your mind, the one thing you’re avoiding is even likelier to rebound. But, as Sigmund Freud pointed out, there’s a bright side: “A wish suppressed during the day asserts itself in a dream.” That is, the fantasies you deny or otherwise make taboo are also likelier to play out in your sleep.
Dream: My lover is gay?!
A dreamer writes:
My first love and I were together when I was in high school. He went of to college for a few years, and has been back in town for close to 2 years now. We have been dating, and intimate. I really like this guy and want to pursue something more with him. He tells me he is not ready and I understand this completely. Last night I had a dream he told me he was gay! I’m confused.
Answer:
Dreams are metaphors, usually not literal. So we look at the symbolism: A gay man is someone who is unavailable for a relationship with a woman. This mirrors perfectly the waking life situation of him telling you he is not ready for a serious relationship. That doesn’t necessarily mean he will never be (he may or may not), however your subconscious mind is showing you what you already know, which is that he is not available for a serious relationship at this time.
Only you can know what’s best for you to proceed moving forward. I would like to encourage you to use and trust your own intuition to guide you through this. And keep listening to your dreams!
Thank you for writing.
‘Conversations Live with Vicki St. Clair’ Radio Show
On December 31, 2012 I was a guest on ‘Conversations Live with Vicki St. Clair’. You can listen to the archived show here: http://conversationslive.net/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=361&Itemid=29
About Conversations Live
We’re about Inspiring ~ Informing ~ Stimulating. Talk radio making a difference one word at a time. There’s something for everyone on Seattle’s Conversations Live with Vicki St. Clair. Our goal is to bring you enlightening guests whose work, expertise, and life-experiences help to inspire, inform, and stimulate. Tune in and tune up with Conversations Live with Vicki St. Clair on KKNW am 1150 or FM 98.9HD!
Dreams & The Paranormal – Workshop at the Bellevue Club (Private Event)
Paranormal and Extraordinary Phenomena in Sleep and Dreams
Have you ever dreamed of a departed loved one, and wondered if their spirit had really come to visit you? Or dreamed of an encounter or event that later actually happened? This workshop will explore some of the unusual and mysterious aspects of sleep and dreams, including:
Precognitive Dreams
After Death Contact Dreams
Night Terrors vs. Nightmares
Clairvoyance
Sleep Paralysis
Lucid Dreaming
Shared Dreams
and Empathic Telepathy
Many people have experienced one or more of these, yet often we keep the experience to ourselves and do not realize how many others are also having them. This workshop is a chance to get these topics out in the open. Whether you are a skeptic, a believer, or a seeker, your curious mind is encouraged to attend.
*This workshop is a private event for members of The Bellevue Club, Oct. 18, 6:30-8:30pm.
If you are interested in hosting a similar workshop, please contact Mimi at 206-328-6464.
The Law of Attraction, Dating and Dreams Workshop
This Sunday I am thrilled to be a guest instructor as part of a 2 hour class that includes some of my all time FAVORITE topics: The Law of Attraction, Dating and Dreams!
I will be teaching a 1/2 hour segment on how our dreams can help us with our relationships as part of a dating workshop held by matchmaker Renessa Rios of Three Step Dating. She will be talking about how to apply Law of Attraction to dating, and I will address how our dreams can enhance this. Read more below!
Dreams, Dating and The Law of Attraction
The Law of Attraction involves the workings of the subconscious mind, and our dreams are the most honest and accurate reflection of that. Did you know that your dreams can help you with your relationships?
Understanding our night time dreams can give us new insights into our relationships from an objective perspective. What is stopping you from having the relationship you desire…Is it other people? Or have you built internal barriers against it? Our dreams show us what other people are doing that may or may not be healthy for us, as well as what we are doing to get in our own way.
Common questions will also be addressed, such as:
If I dream about my ex, should I call them?
If I dream about my ex, does it mean they are thinking of me?
Renessa will talk about ‘The Secret’ to applying the Law of Attraction to your dating life. It should be an interesting and fun class.
We hope to see you there!
DATE: Sunday, August 19
TIME: 5:30-7:30pm
LOCATION: Studio C Workshop
13256 NE 20th St #7
Bellevue, WA 98005
United States
The class will be two hours:
1-1/2 hour dating class taught by Renessa,
1/2 hour guest segment on dreams & dating taught by Mimi.
Prepaid Tickets: $25.00
Door Tickets: $30.00
To Register, go here:
http://guestlistapp.com/events/117048
Altered States of Consciousness in Sleep and Dreams
Hypnogogic State – The transitional, twilight state between being awake and falling asleep. In this state it is common for paranormal phenomena to occur, including auditory and/or visual hallucinations, out of body experiences, sleep paralysis and sleep paralysis attacks.
Hypnopompic State – Same as the hypnogogic state, except this term refers to the transition from sleep to waking.
Out of Body Experience (O.B.E.) – When a person’s consciousness leaves the body and is able to observe the physical surroundings such as the bedroom they are in. This may also involve travelling around, yet still viewing the physical surroundings as we know them in waking reality.
Near Death Experience (N.D.E.) – (a form of O.B.E.) A person may be pronounced clinically dead, only to later come back to life later. Many will report conversations they overheard (for example between surgeons at the operating table if they died in a hospital) that are later confirmed, and the person would have had no way of knowing this information otherwise. This brings up the interesting and fascinating distinction between mind and brain, as consciousness (mind) is surviving without and beyond the death of the physical matter (brain).
Astral Projection – When consciousness leaves the physical body and travels, similar to an Out of Body Experience, but the travel is through a more dream like, other worldly realm.
Lucid Dreaming – Becoming aware of the fact that one is dreaming during the experience of having a dream. For more information read Robert Waggoner’s fascinating book “Lucid Dreaming”. For more info, go here: https://www.thedreamdetective.com/faq.html#lucid
After Death Contact (A.D.C.) – When a deceased loved one comes to visit us in our dreams. While some dreams of loved ones who have crossed over are ways of processing our loss, other are reported as feeling very ‘different’ than regular dreams. Some of the hallmarks of A.D.C. dreams are that they feel very real, as if the loved one were actually with the dreamer. The dreamer may report smelling grandma’s perfume or grandpa’s cigar, and often the dream takes place in the dreamer’s bedroom, which is not the case for most dreams. Sometimes a dream ‘already in progress’ may be interrupted by the appearance the deceased loved one, who almost always brings messages of comfort and love in any of these scenarios. Many people also have these dreams of former pets who have crossed over as well.
Shared Dreams or Mutual Dreaming – The experience of having the same dream at the same time as another person. Usually this occurs between people who are emotionally close such as siblings, close friends, family members or romantic partners. The degree of the ‘shared’ experience may vary from part of each person’s dream being the same (overlapping), to the entire dream being identical for both dreamers. People sometimes intend for a shared dream experience, visualizing it and agreeing on a meeting spot before going to sleep.
Sleep Paralysis – In R.E.M. sleep our body becomes paralyzed so that we don’t physically act out what we are dreaming about, as this could be very harmful to our self and others. When we wake up the paralysis releases, however sometimes there is a ‘glitch in the system’ where the paralysis takes a little longer to release. Becoming conscious and finding that the body is paralyzed can be a terrifying experience that about 20-30% of the population will experience at some time. However, it usually resolves itself and is nothing to be afraid of.
Sleep Paralysis Attacks – A phenomenon that sometimes occurs during the state of sleep paralysis, where the dreamer reports a visitation. The visitor is most often described as either a dark, shadowy figure, or something know as ‘the old hag’, who is reported to look something like a Halloween witch. This phenomenon has been reported all over the world through out history. Researcher David Hufford wrote a book about this called ‘The Terror that Comes in the Night’.
Nightmares – Scary dreams that often will wake us up with a pounding heart and covered in sweat. These are R.E.M. dreams and are important to pay attention to when working through life’s difficulties. If a nightmare relives a trauma and repeats with no progression or resolution over time, this would indicate a P.T.S.D. nightmare and professional guidance with an experienced professional is recommended.
Night Terrors – Different than a nightmare, these do not occur in R.E.M. sleep, but rather in stage 4, or the deepest, non-dream sleep. Often night terrors cause the sufferer to scream out loud, but upon waking they will have no recollection of any kind of dream or what happened.
Daydreams – A relaxed state (similar to a hypnotic trance) where creativity, imagination, problem solving and learning consolidation occur. As part of our circadian rhythm (similar to the 90 minute cycles between R.E.M. dreams when asleep), we have a natural tendency to daydream about every 70-120 minutes through out the day.
Precognitive Dreams – Dreams that pick up on potentials for the future that may or may not play out. There have been reports of people who have had a precognitive dream and later recognized a dangerous situation in waking life because of the dream. They were then able to make a course correction to prevent the potential negative outcome because the dream provided them with the warning and awareness to do this.
Clairvoyant Dreams – A dream during which the dreamer is able to witnesses an outside event (happening in waking reality) at the same time it is actually occurring.
Empathic telepathy – Similar to a clairvoyant dream, except that instead of witnessing an event as an outside observer during the dream, the dreamer experiences the event as if it were happening to them – in a sense assuming the identity of someone that the waking life event is actually happening to.
Consciousness, Dreams and Spirituality seminar
On May 18, 19 & 20th The Evergreen State College (my Alma Mater) will be hosting a reunion weekend called “Return to Evergreen”, filled with seminars and celebrations.
On Saturday May 19th I will be proudly co-facilitating a seminar called ‘Altered States Greener Style: Consciousness, Dreams and Spirituality’. I will be representing the ‘Dreams’ element, professor Heesoon Jun specializes in multicultural issues and mindfulness, and fellow alumnus Adam Sher who is an expert in the noosphere. Together we will pool our resources for an interesting and thought provoking seminar!
http://www.evergreen.edu/40/return/sessions.htm
Return to Evergreen
A Three-day Celebration of Evergreen’s Past, Present and Future
Friday, May 18 – Sunday, May 20
Calling all Greeners and friends! Return to Evergreen is the college’s special 40th anniversary celebration—a chance to reconnect with the Evergreen experience, rekindle old friendships, make memorable new connections and join in the fun. This once-in-a-lifetime opportunity will feature accomplished alumni in a variety of fields alongside faculty members past and present. Teams will present seminars, fishbowl seminars and panel discussions around big ideas: innovation, creativity, sustainability, social justice and more. We will tour the Organic Farm, dance on Red Square, hold a wine tasting and share good times, good company and much more as we mark a milestone in our history and move into our next exciting chapter.